frankly will you trust someone you love with a person who may already have issues with you because you asked a question???
  
I feel if they thought (assistant and DR) you were inappropriate in your concerns they should have explained this to you.  
sounds childish for an assistant to put lies in your file because she was angry  
I use to go to a vet for my cats (a year)I really liked him.I reffered a few people there also. well when I got my Yorkie all changed
first- he wanted to know where and who and much I got him from/for
second-he hurt him giving him his shots(I overlooked that although he was as calm as a stuffed toy) he was dewormed and treated for cocidia deemed otherwise fine 
Next visit  pre neuter check up well I had shaved him down at home ( he questioned that sayng thats their job)and he insists more hair needs to be taken off(off what! skin?) 
Fine....... well he cut him in that area and my boy screamed and is bleeding I almost fainted I took him from the assistant and cuddled him.I said no thank you I will be leaving. the assistant is trying to talk to me meanwhile not a sorry or a word he leaves her to clean him up while he looks at another patient (mind you when he came into the room he had a nasty scratch from another dog a big one that was fighting him)(didn't clean it up either)(FIRST BAD FEELING ) 
So now I am waiting to pay and leave and he comes out trying to talk to me.I say I am too upset please leave me alone I am paying and leaving.He say you know I could report your dog for attacking me I said WHAT!!! he says yes he bit me. I was out done.....and crying. then I see the assistant who witnessed everything and she says she didn't see anything. I could not get out of there fast enough.         
PLEASE do not go back it all starts with one thing you don't like and then escalates then you will look the fool to tell someone about the first time, and you went back......
