My heart is breaking for you and your situation. It sounds to me like your dil doesn't like the whole situation. I have a lump in my chest just thinking of you. Please don't let your dil take over the training of your baby. I think that would be disasterous. My Murfee has nipped at people but it is usually when they are teasing or getting in his face. When we are around other people I just usually hold him. He gets agitated when we are around crowds and their is lots of noise. I'm sure with 4 kids around that it gets loud
Does your son agree with his wife? If you would have to move, there are other places besides nursing homes. I have my mother in one now. You can PM me if you want info. You are in my prayers. Patty