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Originally Posted by theONE  hmmmmm....In reply the man was either very spoiled by a mother who did everything for him as a child (may be even into his 20's), he believes since he works he gets to bypass house duties (he needs to be reminded it takes two hands to build anything and the two of you can spend some time talking in the kitchen--> remember to flirt), or my personal fav. he is afraid he is going to do it wrong and make you very angry--> teach him the woman way->even I need help here. Either way, find out which area he comes from and ask him in plain MAN language "Honey (or Dear), I know you may be tired, but so am I, will you please help me so (insert something man like here example) so we can both watch the game." Unfortunately, we men can be very childish, so persuasion is the game here. Any how, good luck, Remember, always be a lady, it drives us crazy when you just smile. |
This does not work, married 28 years, hubby still does not get it.
Had a mother that poured his coffee and stirred in the cream and sugar, had 5 older sisters too..
when he joined the military he quit drinking coffee, ask him why back then, his reply was... well I am not sure how much cream and sugar my mo put in it.. so I quit drinking it..
of course when I was young I carried on with spoiling, then we get older.. harder to cater... but now
man is spoiled..
I do not think I am he only one..
