I am glad your baby is OK. I know how those things can happen. You really have to be on your toes when you have a small pet and a small child. I have a 4 yr old daugter myself (who also has one of those Dora kitchens lol). It has been drilled into her head not to ever ever EVER pick Susanah up, but she is a child and she occasionally "forgets" and tries to pick her up anyway. Luckily those times are few and far between. She knows that its Ok for her to hold and play with Susanah as long as she is sitting on the floor and a grown up is there too.
I can definitely understand why some breeders are hesitant (or even refuse) to sell to a family with a small child.
__________________ Aerrica, and Norman  RIP my sweet Poopanut |