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Originally Posted by For My Coby  I would agree. Animals, unlike we humans, do a better job of processing their losses. I do believe that they are "sad", but I also know that they don't get wrapped up in their emotions to the point of being non-functional the way that we do. They accept life and death the way we all should. I would say that for the moment, the jammies are helping her. And by the jammies helping her, she may be able to help you. You'll just want to make sure that it doesn't because an obsession for her. My thoughts are with you. |
i agree with you, Diane..
Dena-i think lil Gracie..is using this as a coping tool-and im sure(at first), she was a little confused as to what was going on! now that it's been a week or soo..Gracie is able to realize a little more(since she has smelt Natalie's scent on her Pajamas and seen her ashes..not to mention she can feel your emotions too) she knows you are sad.. You said she had been wanting all that attention from you the other day, and once you picked her up..she was content! she wanted to comfort you! and now i think this is her way of having that comfort, as well!!
and just like Diane said..Gracie can help you!!
Thinking of you daily..Always in my prayers! xoxo.