This is just my philosophy, but I think you can still be the "boss" AND shower your pets with love. I try to be consistent and firm, yet kind. So far it's worked for me. 
__________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)  |