Yes, she is definitely going in the cabin with me. I think putting animals in cargo is HORRIBLE! She is too tiny to even think it anyway. I will ask my vet on saturday about calming medicine. She is comfortable in her carrier as long as I am close by. I wish I could keep her in my lap. I mean let's be honest our dogs are cleaner then some people who will be on the flight in the seat next to us...haha
Thanks for the advise. Good luck on your trip home.