We are much better now.
He came home and apologized, said he absolutely no way now how wanted a divorce or even a separation. HE actually did most of the talking and he said that maybe this would even make us stronger and bring us closer together. Then he talked about how maybe there was some truth to some of the things I said and that he really wants to be a better husband and father and that maybe its time for him to grow up and lose his "lonesome cowboy persona" ('cause girls let me tell you, that lonesome cowboy standing in the corner with his hat pulled down over his eyes a little might be sexy as anything, but oh my lord they are a b*tch and a half to live with).
I am really glad we are Ok now. I just turn into a complete mess when we fight.
Thank you everyone for your prayers! YTers are the best! I hope everyone else gets things worked out too! Ya'll are still in my prayers!