Marriage is wonderful but hard work. I have been where you are right now, I think we all have at one point so I can relate. I have been with my hubby for 9 years and I can tell you what has helped us...when an issue arises, talk about it right then and there. Dont let things go unsaid because it will come up in the next argument. I'm not sure how you tackle a problem but me, I was quick to get angry and talking was not how I got through it, I was hurtful and mean with my words, which of course lead to saying things that we didn't mean. Now I have learned to TALK not scream, and oh what a difference that has made. Its been so long since our last fight that I dont even remember it. Its all how we approach the problem. I'm in no way saying its your fault, just what helped me :-)
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