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Originally Posted by MyLadies  He sounds immature, and spoiled. The debt is a hint to that too, he needs instant gratification... so he buys & needs. I married a man with alot of debt, but thankfully we inherited a little money and was able to pay alot of it off (over $30,000 in cc debt!) Since I had no debt, I didn't realize what that meant until we got married .. then I learned what "minimum payments" bought you.. nothing!!! But we were in our late 30's when we got married, so no maturity issues.
You are young! Move on. If he is "the one" maybe when he's older & more mature he will come back into your life. But if not, then it's not meant to be. |
thank you for the advice. That is very true that maybe later on in life when he is older he will be a little bit more stable I guess you could say. But he is very immature for being 19 and he is extreamly spoiled (even though his parents have backed down a bit on that) Calculating all his debt out would be like ($21000 car and at least 3000 cc debt.) that really does scare me to death.