He sounds immature, and spoiled. The debt is a hint to that too, he needs instant gratification... so he buys & needs. I married a man with alot of debt, but thankfully we inherited a little money and was able to pay alot of it off (over $30,000 in cc debt!) Since I had no debt, I didn't realize what that meant until we got married .. then I learned what "minimum payments" bought you.. nothing!!! But we were in our late 30's when we got married, so no maturity issues.
You are young! Move on. If he is "the one" maybe when he's older & more mature he will come back into your life. But if not, then it's not meant to be. |