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So i have been dating this guy for six months now, and we have gotten very close within these six months. My boyfriend comes from a family who has given him everything he has wanted his whole entire life (or so it seems). It has been very difficult for me to be accepted by some of his family members (they are finally starting to warm up to me) because his family is very well known here and I guess his family just doesnt want to waste their time meeting new girls. So thats issue number 1 kind of.

Issue number two is that my boyfriend is extreamly jelous and although he has gotten better he still "jokes" around saying "so what boyfriend are you going to hang out with tonight" or "so what took you so long you hanging out with your new boyfriend?". This drives me INSANE he knows it and he still continues to do it.

Third issue and this is the big one is that he expects me to give him what he wants when he wants it. Now just recently (some of you know) i got into an accident so i have had a lot on my plate with that, finals week, work, Oliver, boyfriend, friends, family etc. My boyfriend doesnt see where my stress comes in and doesnt realize that something has got to give with all of this stuff going on in my life. He doesnt realize that I cannot pay attention to him and hang out with him and just watch tv with him with all this stuff on my mind. He demands kisses and hugs constantly, it feels like I am giving him a kiss or a hug every 2 mins! Today he told me "I dont understand why you are stressed out you are over reacting" and he wants me to be a little bit more into him or into our relationship and bothers me about it everyday which gets annoying. And I am trying I really am but with everything I have going on its difficult

Fourth Issue, he has so many debts that it seriously scares me to death. I would probably cry everyday if i had the debts he had. And I refuse to go any further with our relationship until the debts are paid off. Mom says its alright to leave someone because of their debts. And I know I am 19 I have a long ways until marriage but i dont plan on marrying someone with debts like his and i dont plan to marry until 25 or so but thats going to come up sooner or later so when do you cut the cord and say done?

Last issue (i promise), I always said to myself that I would only date guys that I would ever consider marrying (cause relationships that I dont consider that are just a waste of my time I believe). And I always promised myself because I am planning to go really far with my education that I would only marry a college boy because I want someone that is able to get through college and has an equal pay or at least close to what I will be getting. My boyfriend has done nothing with his life since he graduated in 2007 (he's 19 too though). Granted its only been a semester but I dont see him doing anythign with his life for a while. He doesnt even work a full time job he just recently started working with his father at his fathers resturant tonight was his first night. Other than that he hasnt worked for the past 2 - 3 months.

So I have a couple of choices, stay with him and deal with all of the kisses and hugs that i have to give him and try to change and hope that he changes and does something with his life or leave. What do I do? do you think I am over reacting just like he does? maybe I am. I dont know im so confused. But I dont want to make it seem like everything is bad in our relationship we have a lot of good times too. (sorry this post is kind of all over the place and sloppy)