As aggravating and frustrating as it is and I totally understand that. I would try not to say anthing (I know that's hard) but my experience has been that if you argue with your husband, he will kinda release his frustrations with you but if you ignore it, he will get frustrated enough that maybe he will say something to them. A long time ago, I read something about that. That in a relationship, when something likes this happens, one of the partners takes on the anger and the more that one gets angries, the less the other partner gets upset. It's like a release valve or something. Once the angry person isn't upset, it kinda forces the non angry person to step up. And it always works at my house. Although, sometimes it is hard to keep my mouth shut and I'm not always successful.
