Well, the BF and I have been living together for over 2 years, and moved to another state together, and I feel the same way, isn't it about time? But I've harped on him a lot and now I don't think I should have pressured him. And the reason we don't do it yet is because we want to both have our credit in line and he wants to buy me a ring that he likes. No, these things don't matter to me that much, but I know that he feels like he is only going to do it once, so he wants it to be right. We could have jumped into it a long time ago, and I did know a long time ago that we will eventually be married, but it will happen when the time is right and I won't want it any other way. So maybe there are other reasons instead of cold feet why he wants to wait. Maybe he has debt to pay off, or wants to be able to pay for a really nice ring or a great ceremony. Just be patient. You will know if it is time to walk away. |