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Originally Posted by tjdmom  I agree with what zoeybear is saying. I would also add that I lived with my husband for 9 years. (I'm ashamed to say!) and if I had it to do over again, I would not have chosen the living together part. It did work out for us in the end, but it doesn't for most. My first bit of advice would be don't move in together. But I would also say, if you've been only dating for a year, that's not all that long a time and I would discuss things with him a little more and see exactly where he is coming from but don't pressure him or yourself. My husband starting asking me to marry him when I had given up and didn't even want to marry him anymore so the more you push the issue, the more he probably will back away. |
I agree with everything you said. In my sociology class in the TB it said 50% of couples that live together before getting married get divorced(i think or the number was higher
) but for some it can work
