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Originally Posted by chloeTG

Thanks guys, it's good to get a non-emotional look at what's going on here. And I absolutely would NOT want him to marry me because he felt pressured, that's no way to start a marriage...something else that bothers me is on our anniversary HE brought up that he wanted to get engaged by January of 08...okay now he's saying he needs more time...well which is it? If your not sure it's cruel to say things like that. I can understand two people being in two different places in their lives I'm certainly not asking to be come married in only one year...engaged in two and married our 3rd year out..that would be an idea of what I'd like.

It seems like he's confused..