[chloeTG]

Okay ladies and gents...you guys are like my second family so I thought I would see if you had any advice for me.

I have been dating this guy for a year now...I absolutely adore and love him with all of my heart! Last night he brought up that one of his female co-workers asked when we were going to get married and said that he told her that he wasn't getting married for a couple more years. We've discussed it several times and he has consistently said that he wants to get his ducks in a row before he gets married and he wants us to wait for a couple of years. I say that 2 years would be my time-line. It hurt my feelings...I know I would marry him now based on what we've been through and our like-minded decision making. How much more are you going to know someone after two years to not want to marry them?

I also pose the question "when does a woman know she's getting the run around and at what time should she call a spade a spade and walk away from someone that is unwilling to committ?" He comes from a broken home and says that he is afraid his marriage will end up like his parents marriage. I told him that we are not his parents nor mine and will end up making our own mistakes as well as achieving goals together! That you can't compare the two?? No two relationship is the same.

Some of you will probably say, why ruin a good thing? But what happened to being happily married and the sanctity of marriage itself?

Thanks for listening guys...don't know what I should do...walk away or stay...