My Dad is 77 and he likes magazine subscriptions. In the past he's gotten them for photography, RC airplanes, woodworking, etc. Also, his ears get cold - so a knit scarf and warm gloves.
I'm 50, and I LOVE perfume and books by best selling authors
If either of the ladies have hobbies i.e. crocheting, cross stich - yarn, threads, or magazine subscriptions are great.
Stationery is always nice to receive, along with stamps. Many elderly people are on fixed incomes and stamps are expensive now.
My Mother is 72, and she always wants card stock for her printer. She also likes roomy tote bags for her crocheting and books.
__________________ Kim , Rebel ,and baby Dixie 
RIP my sweet Lucy |