I have two girls and as for being stinky I do not agree. They sleep with me every night & I bathe them every two weeks, they have no bumps and as for being destructive, not really just puppy stuff when they were younger.
They do get hyper about 8 or 9 at night doing hotlaps around the house, it is their bedtime rital.
Enjoy your puppy and give her a lot of love & attention and she will be fine.