Yikes! Sorry you are having so much trouble!

How old is Miss Mika?
Have you thought about having her wear a diaper? Bella wears them sometimes when she is at someone else's house or now that we are in the living room a lot with the Christmas tree and I want to be sure there are no accidents. I ordered a couple from Des at Go.Fetch and they are great! Bella won't go in one and so it reminds her to hold it and then when I take it off and take her outside she goes. It's actually how she got potty trained and now I just use them as a reminder or an extra precaution.
Good luck!