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Originally Posted by MIZBROWN  Well, I first want to say that he is really cute! I certainly understand why you had to take him...
However, I dont know too much about your situation... except that you live with your boyfriend (that already feels upset w/ the # of pets you have). I understand that your a very caring person (thats commendable), however it seems a bit selfish of you not to consider his feelings on the matter. Most likely your splitting bills or what not..... So, what if the pets become such a problem for him that he opts to leave. If your already in a financial pinch with your business, what will happen if your left with full rent/util to pay? Can you afford to tend to all that and 5 yorkies too. I mean, my vet bills for one can be extreme sometimes, let alone 5?
And lastly, I do think it to be a little unfair that you already commited to taking 2 more and now you have to back out because of this spur of the moment decision... If you step up and commit to do something, ANYTHING... you should always follow through. I think its only fair to think of the family that thought you were gonna help them, and how they now have to continue on the search of finding a good home for their pups.... Regardless if you were'nt their first option, you were the one who inquired and its unfair to use that as an excuse... JMO though... Best of luck to you.... |
I take care of my own bills. I am only staying with him. I still have another house. Everything that has to do with my dogs, I take care of by myself. I have never had anyone else take care of them. Everywhere I go, they go. I have never asked for a cent from my bf or my family to pay for my dogs living cost. If you have read before, I never said anything about backing out from adopting the 2. I am still planning on adopting them, but will have to be after the holidays. Thanks for your input anyways.
BTW.. my boyfriend actually seems to be okay with him now. When I told him about this post, he was actually bothered by some of the post.