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You know ... w/ men... sometimes they have panic attacks at the thought of commitment...even when the commitment was thier idea...
Don't get in too big a rush... take the mom's house route...space heaters are dangerous but heating lamps work wonders. Put up wood to block any wind. You never know if things may work out and you are in another commitment w/ property! Take a deep breath... show no needyness to him... brave through it... but at the same time let him know you care.... give him a couple of weeks w/o you... he'll want you back! Especially when you move on w/ no problems!
I am so sorry... I have been there...even w/ the man I eventually married... who broke up w/ me for time being... when he asked to come back... I made sure that it was on my terms... I still dated.... he couldn't...lol... showing him that I can go on w/o him... even if I hated every minute of it and didn't want to breath w/o him! |