[Lauri]

Yes it is Ringo. When I turned around to him, I was filled with so much anger that I swear to you I wanted to beat him with my fists and scream at him till he was deaf. But in that split second, my heart changed, and I know it wasn't me, I didn't have that much compassion in me, so it had to be my higher power, which in my case is God. I wanted to share that story about my past even though to this day it's hard to re tell because you never forget that tragedy, the sight, smells, sounds, people, words that were said etc. It's probably one of the most vivid memories of my life,but I thought that Millicorrales needed to hear the same words I said even though my situation involved my child, and her's her furkid. I guess I just wanted her to forgive, no matter what the outcome before it was too late to fix it, like it could have been for me. I don't know. Maybe in her grief she couldn't see the similiar situation. I hope her the best today.