sorry i dont have any wisdom on this, but i am very interested what others have to say too. i too am thinking about getting a little girl, but dont know if it would be best to get her now with dexter being 4 1/2 months, or if i should wait till next spring/summer. i dont have the problem of leaving them at home a lot since i work from home and right now i do take dexter with me almost everywhere...even shopping trips! but i think this would make him even more upset if we did have to leave him for extended time since he is used to going everywhere with momma. not too sure if company will make that better or worse..
i hope someone responds to this for you
