Ooooo don't feel bad ...... not at all!!! When you sign up for the Holiday Card Exchange, you are only required to send cards to the 5 people below your name. AND if you want to send cards to anyone else, you can do so....or send to the whole list...or just pick and choose....it doesn't matter and no one will mind........You can send a little "Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays" note thru a PM to brighten someone's day, but it isn't necessary.