I use both the bows with bands and barrettes. I will normally buy bows with bands if I have a choice though..but both work for me. If I use a barrette, I pull the hair up first in a rubber band, otherwise the barrette slides right out.
So far I have 4 favorite bow makers that I've bought from before:
In no particular order
www.doggiebowties.com www.myladysdogbows.com (YT member Ladymom)
www.valsdivados.com (she also has an eBay store)
YT member crb
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~Magnifique Yorkies~
Purchasing from backyard breeders, pet shops, and puppymills perpetuates the suffering of other dogs.
Educate yourself and buy from reputable breeders or rescue.