First I have to say that I might be one of the stareers. I have a tendency to stare at people. I'm a people watchers. I look at people and think about who there friends might be and what they like to do. I will look hard at people that wear different types of clothes and tatoos. Usually I'm admiring them. If asked I would say i like there outfit or tatoo. I have two tatoos and my belly pierced. I got my belly pierced because my parents were so adamently against it and I got my first tatoo because i thought they were cool. My belly piercing and 1st tattoo was for rebellious reasons (my parents told me they would stop paying for college if I got a tatoo or peircing), I decided I'd rather pay for my own schooling and be who I wanted to be then to be manipulated by them. And they didn't stop paying either. I used to dress like a slut in high school and college. I had a great figure and just wanted to show it off. I got so much flack from everyone. and boy did the rumors fly. But i knew I was a virgin (til 19) and not a slut and that's all that i cared about. But it made my parents and other adult think I was some kinda bad kid and I wasn't. I got good grades and was friendly towards everyone, but people will think what they think. And I found friends and a husband who let me be me and i couldn't be happier.
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