Did we both marry into the same family??
I stomach my in laws for the sake of hubby and my son. No matter how much they hate me, I'll be here and no matter how much I dislike them, they will always be there. When she is nice to me I'm nice back. I just don't bend over backwards for her anymore. I got hurt way to much.
Hubby told me not to be a butt kisser no more. I just go with the flow.