I feel you pain. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years but together for 7. It's the dreaded question. My parents don't say a word as they know it is a touchy subject in our house and it only upsets me. His family we don't see as much so it's always their first question. The problem is he wants them now, but I don't. I want to get further in my career at this point in my life. The worst is when we go to the nursing home to see my Papa because he has dementia. That is the only question he asks and he asks it every 5 minuets. "When you gonna give me a baby to spoil?". Now that my other sister is married, I just slide off the hook by saying "You should talk to Heather about that Papa" LOL. We all have our reasons for waiting to have a family and only you know when the time is right. Good luck getting through the holidays with the dreaded question. If it gets too uncomfortable, just pretend like you didn't hear the question or reply with "How 'bout them bears?" LOL
