That's wonderful your husband is willing to put in the sacrifice for the sake of Trinity.....she at least has someone to count on....now you have to make up stories to her so as to not hurt her ....
You can't make your ex do the right thing, he either will or he wont, it kind of tells a little bit of his character, when to going gets tough he goes into self preservation mode, in order to keep piece in his home and not have to deal with her wrath he'll make his choices accordingly....I bet if you recommended sending the wife flowers or taping her graduation to watch later he would have thought you lost your mind ,but he thinks this is great for Trinity ...so sad......
I hope in the end he does the right thing...Good luck....
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