Sorry she is driving you crazy but I guess I would just say that I wish my mom was here to drive me crazy. I'm sure it's out of love and concern for you and I wish I had my mom here with me today to do that. I guess though, she is always in my heart and I do take comfort in that.
Appreciate what you have even if it sometimes drives you crazy because before you know it, it will be gone and after all, Thankgiving is about appreciating those things we are thankful for.