I don't know what's wrong with her. She woke me up this morning crying and saying she doesn't know what to do with me, and that i'm always sleeping. Last night i went to sleep at 9 and this morning she came in at 7:30 crying, i woke up at 8 and took a shower. I used to have problems before to fall asleep and would be up all night and sleep till the afternoon and she would be mad at that but for the last 3 days i've been going to sleep early and waking up early, and now on Thanksgiving she comes crying???
Now that i've been sleeping normal hours she wants to break down, i just don't get it. It's like she's mad that i don't sleep the hours she does. Last night when i was going to sleep she was like what's wrong with you? Did you not sleep yesterday? Why are you going to sleep? It was already 9 and i was like mom this is a normal time to fall asleep
The day before yesterday i went to sleep at like 8 or 9 and woke up at 5 am and was up all day yesterday running errands, making pies and i went to my gma's house with my bf to help with the turkey. I took a nap at her house cause i had a stomach ache and my stomach has been hurting for the past 3 days. It comes and goes and idk what it is. Well she knows my stomach's been hurting and asked me if i felt sick this morning cause i was still sleeping and then started crying! It doesn't hurt right now but i can't help it when it does. She's acting like it's my fault. Another thing i think it is is cause my bf sleeps over sometimes. She doesn't have a problem with it but her bf always says something to her. The fact that he complains i guess stresses her out and turns her against me too. When her bfs not here she never says anything and acts all nice, totally different. He sometimes takes vacations to
PR and when he gets back she's back to her stressfull self. I just hate it. I guess he's like my stepdad but i dont call him that cause they're not married, he's just been living here for like 8 yrs and has never been like a dad to me. I have my own dad and i dont know why he always has something to say when he's not the one raising me, my mom is. This morning i heard her telling my gma that he said none of his daughters ever let a guy sleep at their house. I really don't think he's one to talk. He has like 6 daughter and 2 sons. His youngest son is 17 and has a gf pregnant. I don't even think he is in school and he talks to him like sh**. He also used to be a theif, when he used to come over when he was younger he would steal stuff from us. I really don't even think he raised him right imo. And his daughters, none of them ever call him, ever get him cards or anything for father's day, they just forget about him. Also like 2 of his daughters had kids at 16 yo. So really who is he to talk about me? He's also an alcoholic and idk why my mom is with him. He doesn't do anything stupid, he acts sober when he's drunk but that's because he's always been drinking and i guess doesn't even feel it anymore. I am just so frustrated. I want to move out so badly but right now i just paid off my debt and am looking for a job to save money. I'm in school full time too, i dont know what else she expects of me. I am 20 and have never had kids, i don't do drugs or anything crazy like that. I also don't even go to parties much, i used to party more before in hs but lately all i do is hang out with the dogs and my bf. We go to his house sometimes, and go out to the movies, to eat, etc. He only sleeps over sometimes, he lives like 10 blocks away, but i have my room to myself, we stay out of their way. He is also working and going to school with me and wants to be a chef, and is helping a ton this thanksgiving with the food. I don't see the problem. I think she wants me to work right right now but the problem with me is when i work and go to school my grades start to suffer. I feel like my Thansgiving day is ruined
And now i have to go to my bf's and make an apple pie and help cook, whic im doing cause i want to do. Gosh it's not like i don't do anything, i just don't get why she cries to me, idk what im supposed to do!