please don't worry about sounding too extreme. when i am looking to get a pet, i worry if the breeder dosen't ask enough questions. The first breeder i talked to when i was looking for copper only asked me if I wanted a boy or a girl, and when did I want to pick it up? I felt like she would have sold her little angels to anyone, so i found a person who I thought cared instead. If she is the right person for your little girl then she will understand
