I'd feel exactly the same way. If my yorkies weren't welcome, then I'm not welcomed and now you have a great excuse to not go to see the in-laws. Like who really wants all that stress anyway on a holiday. You'll have a much more relaxing day at home with the ones you truly love and that love you unconditionally.
I'm perfectly happy sending my hubby on the plane next Mother's Day to see his mom and I'll be home with my babies. Let him go deal with his relatives while I'm comfortably at home. I almost feel guilty ... NOT. :^)
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