I have had RNY gastric bypass...
I decided against the lap band.
PM me if you want to chat about it.... I do not regret it five years and two pregnancies later. I truly believe it changed my life. I know it sounds a little hokey, but after I lost the weight I went to nursing school, graduated with my RN, started a career and I can be a different kind of mother to my seven kids....
But I'd rather talk to you privately about it ...