you guys are the best - thank you. You have no idea how much your replies mean to me - I have so many great memories here and had so much support that if I keep posting about it I'll sound like a big mush

but that's ok - being 'Hokey' works for me !
lots of love and thanks again....I'll be back and maybe my Next thread will be great news....once I get the job situation stabilized then I'll be moving and hope to find a safe place for the girls and I... but apartment living SCARES me - especially in Houston. This is the 1st time I wish I lived in a small town lol -