here's and idea , I get these small discs from a local store with different graphics embossed on them ( none of which are girly in any way) some are quite humorous and others just make a statement( politically correct or not), it's fun to watch other peoples faces when they actually realize what each disc is. But overall we have alot of fun with them.
i just hot glue the hair bands to the back of the discs, this keeps thier hair out of thier faces, when i walk the boys w/ the girls it really is alot of fun to see peoples reactions to the boys discs -vs- the girls bows.