we go over my mom's house, it's funny we eat in shifts, my sister and her family eat first, and my husband and I and Micah eat second ( since were always late anyways), so it works out fine, and the kids will eat in my mom's bedroom and watch cartoons, its crazy but it works... then the men will go in the livingroom with my dad and watch football while the woman clean up, now i don't think that's fair....