im so sorry you are going through this!! i know its probably so hard..but it will all work out and be ok in the end. its happening for a reason(even though right now, it is so unclear what that reason is!) but stay strong and continue to be a good mama to ur kiddies and everything will pan out how it's supposed to. Just remind yourself that you are helping him and he will be so much happier and healthier once he is clean.. that is not something he can do on his own-so its good that he is in there and getting the right help that he needs!! If he accepts the treatment and gives it his all, he will come out a better husband and father then he was before he went in.. It's all for the best-you are ultimately saving his life by doing this.. not to mention you and your kids as well!!
keep your head up and stay strong. i will keep you in my prayers daily-let me know if you need anything!! keep the faith. xo. meg.