IMO, most (not all..just most) men suck.
They don't want what they can have, and they don't know what they have til its gone.
I dated one guy on and off for 14 months. We dated several months, but he just would never committ so I started talking to one of my University's football players. So he finds that out and sees me at the bar and decides he wants me back, so I go home with him that night and he decides all of a sudden he wants me to be his gf now. Then more stuff happens and we break up, then get together, then break. Basically it was 14 long months of on again, off again.
My friends used to ask and Joke "are you dating Luke THIS wk".
I finally cut it off for good, he's got a new serious gf, but he still IMs me and txt me when he's drunk.
The last time I talked to him over yahoo, he was beggng me for new pics of myself. I don't even wanna think about what he was going to do with them!