Well, that's how a lot of people feel..with mine, I don't take them if I'm going somewhere and they dont' want them there..If it's close by, put her in an xpen for the day..I know your feelings are hurt, but, I learned a long time ago, some people just don't want dogs in their house, and you have to respect them for that...My in-laws never cared for my dogs, but, I had the attitude that, this is my dogs house as much as mine, if they're coming here, then they deal with my dogs..You're just going to have to decide, if you don't want to go to dinner, then don't go, but, don't get upset with his mom, as hard as it is, it's her house..