We are both in the same boat!! I want to move. Do you think that will help? I live 2 min from her. Oh and the vacation thing my MIL does the same thing. If I plan a vacation she will not only include herself but the whole family. My hubby has 2 brothers and a sister. We was going to Disney World a few years back and she made it a family vacation. We ended up not going. I was planing a Halloween Party and she changed it so she could include her church friends. It had to be a Costume party. The changed the music to all christian music. We ended up canceling it. My husband was like what happened. Until now it didnt see it but the more we have to cancel plans because of her he get it. He is going this weekend to tell her to back off or we are moving out of state. Ours is everything we try and do she buds in and changes. We feel like we are 10 and cant do anything w/o her permision. I think some mothers never know when to let go. I just hope I wont be one of those. My son is 18 and I try to only give advice when I have to but most of the time I let him figure it out on his own.
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