[Mybabyboymax]

hard topic, because usually the husbands are going to agree and see nothing wrong with what their mother is doing. And usually the wife feels like "listen to me...take how I feel into consideration, she does it cause you dont put an end to it" My MIL is a sweet person and we get along great now...keyword being NOW lol. I felt she over stepped her boundries and felt my hubby said and did nothing, in order to keep the peace...but I wasnt at peace! I had to learn how to relate to how he felt...that was his mom. he was put in a bad position. I dont know how u react to it when situation arise but ME..I would give attitude and be very mean. Once I learned to see how he was feeling and toned it down a notch he started to realize that I had valid reasons and HE had to put an end to it. Honestly im not sure what he said to her because I wasnt there but he did put his foot down and she slowly started changing. It took some time but 9 yrs into the marriage things are great with her, she realized that my hubby and I have our family and do things the way WE see best. not sure if my post helps or answers your question in any way but I guess I just wanted to stay I can relate lol