Oh my goodness gracious, I am so sorry you are having to deal with that - it sounds
VERY annoying. All I know is, my mother in law will be down here in 10 days from Canada to come and stay with us for 2 weeks, and she BETTER not say one single WORD about how I am with my babies. The last time she was down here I didn't have either Yorkie yet, so
Her sister used to have a Yorkie though, so she DOES like them...but I bet ya a million bucks her sisters Yorkie wasn't even HALF as spoiled as mine are
I actually think I am going to move all of their clothes into my bedroom while she is here - seriously - LOL....I don't want her to think I spend all of our money on dogs clothes. Uhh, which, technically I do
Now when my father in law comes down (trust me, I am NOT looking forward to the day...) I KNOOOOOW he will say something. He ALWAYS has something to say about EVERYTHING
No offense to any German's out there - but he IS German and lets just say that he IS NOT afraid to speak his mind - even if it makes him look like a total "you-know-what" ........he could care less. Ok, don't even get me started on him because once I get going about my FIL I won't shut up - the man drives me INSANE
Anyway I am sorry for blabbing!! lol. I honestly and truthfully have no advice except to just flat out tell her off. Does your husband stand up to her at all??? I personally would only be able to take that crap for so long before just totally blowing up in her face. I mean, that is YOUR dog - sorry but she needs to mind her own darn business and keep her nose out of yours. Maybe if you lay into her she will BACK OFF a little bit
She has no problem coming into YOUR home and telling you what SHE feels....I'd do the same to her girl