I feel so bad for both parties...as I have had communications with both at one time or another about other stuff....it sounds like a HUGE mix-up.....though......
One thing for sure, in anything....you have to be very careful what is written in an email....as it is hard to realize that there is a human being behind it.....
I am somewhat confused.......it originally sounded good about Fancy.....at least I thought.....then ...bam.....comments were made that I hope were NOT meant how they sounded.....
Dial the phone.....it can only help....