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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom  My Mom died when she was 44 - and I was 21. That was 18 years ago and it is STILL painful, but much easier and bearable. It takes a LOT of time, reflection, healing for the pain to lessen/change. It never truly goes away, but it does change, and it does get easier.
A book I found very validating is "Motherless Daughters" - it's a book about women who've lost their mothers. The shared experiences were very validating, healing, and similar. You are NOT alone, my friend - and I wish I could make it all better for you.
Therapy can help a ton - have you thought about it? Or a support group?
Big hugs to you. My heart really goes out to you. |
http://www.motherlessdaughters.org/ is a website that you can light a candle for your Momma. Bless you and talking from your heart is the first step toward healing. You will always miss your Momma and in time you won't feel so broken. I promise you.
Warmly, Deborah