Hi, I'd like to think I "make" the rules..especially when it comes to bully sticks (super messy, don't want them on the bed), buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut, my fur kid has found ways to break them.
For example: Tobi is NOT allowed to have his bully stick on the bed, so everytime he hops on w/his bully stick, I take it and throw it onto HIS bed. When I throw it on his bed, he goes and sits on his bed and munches happily away for about 30 seconds..then he grabs it and hops back onto the bed. This goes on for..oh...about 10-15 minutes..and eventually he wins and I just get tired of fighting him! hahaha
Good luck on the whole "rules" thing though!