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Originally Posted by marcerella02

i completely agree! we just love getting mail.. doens't not matter what it is or how much was spent. I hate when people see what others sent and feel that they didn't spend enough but HONEST TO GOD it just doesn't matter... at least to us

See...that's the way we feel too, honestly. We don't care what we get...we'll be happy with anything...we don't expect a lot. I was just curious to see what others are spending to see how bad my shopping really is...lol. But I still think, regardless, there will always be that thought in the back of everyone's head..."what if my buddy doesn't like what I get them?" BUT I do think it's a definite benefit that we have DIFFERENT sending and receiving buddies...that makes it less stressful because you're not giving to the same person you're getting something from...so you don't have to worry as much about "did I spend as much as they did?" "was I as creative as they were?"

Maybe I just worry too much...