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Originally Posted by LoveMyJake  Thank you, I appreciate that. At first, that PM almost caused me to leave YT and I did change my user name. But, there are VERY many nice people on her who showed me so much kindness through everything that I knew I couldn't leave just because of one person who didn't even know what they were talking about. What they said about me in the PM didn't bother me, it's what they said about my little Lily that hurt. They even talked bad about my other yorkie, Jake. Normally, I would have just dismissed the whole thing as some idiot with nothing better to do. But, the PM came on the day Lily died and that was hard. I don't even give that PM a thought anymore, and the only reason I brought it up now is to show why people tend not to speak up publicly. It's not always as easy as it sounds. I do want to say, though, there are many more nice, thoughtful people here than mean ones. There are people here with really good hearts. I wish everyone could be like that. |
im glad you are able to look past such a mean and sick-hearted individual!! i am sorry you had to deal with this in general, let alone when you were already sad and vulnerable(due to the loss of lily). i remember reading about your situation and your loss..
my heart went out to you and still does!! I didnt know your situation and that this was happening(as im sure many didnt either) But i am sorry that you had to go through that.. and deal with someone who kicked you when you were already down..(with only harsh views that were ignorant, untrue, and all in all hurtful) im sorry you were made feel this way and that it had such a negative impact, causing you to leave yorkietalk.(i completely understand why though.. im sure i would have felt and done the same) but im glad you came back-and look, if you didnt you might have not found out about the pain and problems she had caused everyone else!!
plus..you didnt let her win, by changing your compassion and love towards being a good person, yourself. i believe everything happens for a reason..and it will all come around and pan out in the long run. people like that are obviously rude, selfish, and have major issues that need to be dealt with-and often times try and bring as many people down with them..in order to make themselves feel better. very sad-not for her.. but the kids!!
..and those poor animals.
it makes me sick.
i hope it all works out for everyone and i hope you all find comfort in knowing that it wasnt just you..and there ARE many good people in the world, who appreciate the love and compassion people have(its just a shame we have to encounter the negative situations, which often time make our caring hearts a little more guarded and sheltered!!) XO.
have a nice weekend, everyone!!