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Originally Posted by crystalsmom  Look what BamaFan went through for speaking up about this very subject. It is not all that easy to come out and tell the world but you can pm people who you see falling into the same trap.
LovemyJake you did a wonderful thing for Lily and take the pm with a grain of salt. |
Thank you, I appreciate that. At first, that PM almost caused me to leave YT and I did change my user name. But, there are VERY many nice people on her who showed me so much kindness through everything that I knew I couldn't leave just because of one person who didn't even know what they were talking about. What they said about me in the PM didn't bother me, it's what they said about my little Lily that hurt. They even talked bad about my other yorkie, Jake. Normally, I would have just dismissed the whole thing as some idiot with nothing better to do. But, the PM came on the day Lily died and that was hard. I don't even give that PM a thought anymore, and the only reason I brought it up now is to show why people tend not to speak up publicly. It's not always as easy as it sounds. I do want to say, though, there are many more nice, thoughtful people here than mean ones. There are people here with really good hearts. I wish everyone could be like that.